{"id":489,"date":"2008-06-13T11:56:50","date_gmt":"2008-06-13T11:56:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pcarnicelli.wordpress.com\/2008\/06\/13\/un-guide-de-con"},"modified":"2026-05-01T10:53:03","modified_gmt":"2026-05-01T08:53:03","slug":"un-guide-de-con","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/2008\/06\/13\/un-guide-de-con\/","title":{"rendered":"Un Guide de conversation"},"content":{"rendered":"

J’ai trouv\u00e9 sur le net nombre de guides de conversation qui concernent les conversations que nous pouvons avoir \u00e0 l’\u00e9tranger, mais je n’ai pas trouv\u00e9 de guide pour les conversations que nous avons le soir si nous sommes dans une r\u00e9union de parti politique, ou dans une commission municipale, par exemple.\u00a0Dans ces r\u00e9unions la conversation tourne souvent au monologue et le plus fort gagne\u2026 Mais il gagne quoi ? Un coup de poing dans le nez ? G\u00e9niale la conversation\u00a0 ! Vous ne trouvez pas ?<\/p>\n

Il y a souvent confusion entre pouvoir et autorit\u00e9 mais ce n’est pas l\u00e0 l’objet de mon billet aujourd’hui\u2026 <\/strong><\/p>\n

J’ai l’habitude de donner lors de des r\u00e9unions que je co-anime ou que j’anime, un papier avec un guide de conversation<\/strong> qui facilite les choses\u2026\u00a0Je vous le transmets tel quel, il est modifiable bien s\u00fbr et am\u00e9liorable. Alors ayez du bon temps avec, et n’h\u00e9sitez pas \u00e0 me faire vos retours !<\/p>\n

GUIDE DE CONVERSATION<\/strong><\/p>\n

    \n
  1. \u00c9couter et ne pas h\u00e9siter \u00e0 poser des questions pour comprendre.<\/li>\n
  2. Ne pas juger trop vite.<\/li>\n
  3. Utiliser des messages \u201cJe\u201d.<\/li>\n
  4. Exprimer et partager son raisonnement, sa r\u00e9flexion.<\/li>\n
  5. Permettre \u00e0 soi-m\u00eame et aux autres de ne pas toujours \u00eatre tr\u00e8s clair.<\/li>\n
  6. Exprimer et accueillir les points de vue divergents.<\/li>\n
  7. \u00c9viter les g\u00e9n\u00e9ralisations et les st\u00e9r\u00e9otypes culturels.<\/li>\n
  8. Respecter les moments de silence.<\/li>\n
  9. Aller jusqu\u2019au bout des questions\/probl\u00e8mes difficiles ET importants.<\/li>\n
  10. Respecter la confidentialit\u00e9.<\/li>\n
  11. \u00catre responsable de sa propre participation.<\/li>\n
  12. Une conversation \u00e0 la fois.<\/li>\n
  13. Pr\u00e9supposer de bonnes intentions.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Bien \u00e0 vous,<\/p>\n

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    J’ai trouv\u00e9 sur le net nombre de guides de conversation qui concernent les conversations que nous pouvons avoir \u00e0 l’\u00e9tranger, mais je n’ai pas trouv\u00e9 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":8892,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"yasr_overall_rating":0,"yasr_post_is_review":"","yasr_auto_insert_disabled":"","yasr_review_type":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[10],"tags":[22,340,23],"class_list":["post-489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching","tag-coaching","tag-formation","tag-management"],"aioseo_notices":[],"yasr_visitor_votes":{"stars_attributes":{"read_only":false,"span_bottom":false},"number_of_votes":0,"sum_votes":0},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/img_4180.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/489","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=489"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/489\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10560,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/489\/revisions\/10560"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}