{"id":219,"date":"2010-12-28T09:11:31","date_gmt":"2010-12-28T09:11:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pcarnicelli.wordpress.com\/2010\/12\/28\/savoir-capituler-cest-enfin-accepter-de-changer"},"modified":"2026-02-07T13:37:36","modified_gmt":"2026-02-07T13:37:36","slug":"savoir-capituler-cest-enfin-accepter-de-changer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carnicelli.eu\/index.php\/2010\/12\/28\/savoir-capituler-cest-enfin-accepter-de-changer\/","title":{"rendered":"Savoir capituler c&rsquo;est s&rsquo;autoriser \u00e0 changer !"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il y a une phrase qui m&rsquo;impressionne et qui vient des&nbsp;sto\u00efciens&nbsp;(<em>de Marc Aur\u00e8le ?<\/em>) :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00ab\u00a0Mon dieu, donnez moi la force de supporter ce qui ne d\u00e9pend pas de moi,<br> le courage de changer ce qui d\u00e9pend de moi et\u00a0la sagesse de faire la diff\u00e9rence entre les deux.\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0<\/strong><br> <em>Sans\u00a0entrer sur une dissertation sur SON dieu, rappelons-nous qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;est pas celui des chr\u00e9tiens, mais bien le COSMOS, vu comme un ensemble de r\u00e8gles qui\u00a0construisent\u00a0l&rsquo;Harmonie\u00a0universelle.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bon et alors o\u00f9 est-ce que je veux en venir, hein ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">J&rsquo;ai rencontr\u00e9 derni\u00e8rement, une personne qui est arc-bout\u00e9 sur ses certitudes. Elle est s\u00fbre d&rsquo;avoir raison et que son divorce est injuste pour elle.&nbsp;Tout sa volont\u00e9 est fix\u00e9e sur la garde de son enfant de 6 ans, qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 donn\u00e9e \u00e0 son conjoint.&nbsp;Depuis 3 ans que le divorce est prononc\u00e9, sa vie est enti\u00e8rement r\u00e9gl\u00e9e sur les week-end de garde, au d\u00e9triment de son nouveau couple, de ses relations avec ses amis et son travail.&nbsp;La non-pr\u00e9sentation de&nbsp;l&rsquo;enfant, l&rsquo;accusation de l&rsquo;autre, la guerre avec son conjoint, sont les seules discussions possibles avec elle.&nbsp;Dans ce jeu, qui n&rsquo;en est pas un, entrent&nbsp;all\u00e8grement, ses grands enfants, qui ont tout deux, plus de 20 ans, puis ses parents et ses amis&#8230; Enfin certains amis&#8230; Mais je me refuse \u00e0 prendre parti dans cette guerre o\u00f9 l&rsquo;essentiel est oubli\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Et l&rsquo;<strong>essentiel est l&rsquo;enfant de 6 ans<\/strong> d&rsquo;apr\u00e8s moi. mais peut-\u00eatre ai-je tord ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Savoir qui a raison ? Et savoir qui a tord ? Est-ce vraiment le but de ce d\u00e9bat ?&nbsp;Que va devenir l&rsquo;enfant ? me semble \u00eatre essentiel ! Et malheureusement, pour pouvoir se pencher sur cette question les parents doivent d&rsquo;abord commencer par accepter leur s\u00e9paration !&nbsp;Accepter que maintenant :<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>leur vie n&rsquo;est plus commune,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>qu&rsquo;ils ont chacun rencontr\u00e9 un nouveau conjoint (<em>ce qui est le cas<\/em>)\u00a0et que celui-ci n&rsquo;a pas \u00e0 entrer dans ce jeu malsain.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cela passe par une capitulation !&nbsp;Je n&rsquo;ai pas dit une d\u00e9faite ! Il n&rsquo;y a ni&nbsp;vainqueur, ni vaincu ! Il y a un changement de situation. Et quoi qu&rsquo;il arrive l&rsquo;enfant restera leurs enfant \u00e0 tous les deux&#8230;&nbsp;<strong>Alors pourquoi se d\u00e9chirer ?&nbsp;<\/strong>Pas facile hein ?&nbsp;Combien d&rsquo;exemples encore ai-je \u00e0 ma disposition ? On pourrait en faire un livre sur la capitulation. <em>Tiens ce serait une id\u00e9e !&nbsp;<\/em>Les gens qui ne l\u00e2chent pas leur point de vue, qui veulent avoir raison, qui sont s\u00fbr de leur droit et qui s&#8217;emp\u00eachent de vivre toute leur vie en esp\u00e9rant une r\u00e9paration qui ne viendra peut-\u00eatre jamais&#8230;&nbsp;Avoir raison jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 rejeter les autres, ou laisser pourrir une situation ou une soir\u00e9e parce que l&rsquo;on a raison !&nbsp;Est-ce que le jeu en vaut la chandelle ? Qu&rsquo;est-ce qui est sacr\u00e9 pour moi ? Quelles sont les choses sur lesquelles, je ne veux pas transiger ? Et tout cela&#8230; parce que j&rsquo;ai raison ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Et que ferait l&rsquo;amour \u00e0 ma place ?&nbsp;<\/strong>Voil\u00e0 une question int\u00e9ressante \u00e0 se poser quand je m&rsquo;aper\u00e7ois que la situation se&nbsp;cristallise&nbsp;autour la phrase suivante <strong>\u00ab\u00a0J&rsquo;ai raison !\u00a0\u00bb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Et bien la r\u00e9ponse est souvent :&nbsp;<strong>\u00ab\u00a0L&rsquo;amour se tournerait r\u00e9solument vers la construction de ma vie.\u00a0\u00bb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alors est-ce que le fait d&rsquo;avoir raison me permet de continuer \u00e0 construire ma vie ou suis-je bloqu\u00e9 ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Capituler c&rsquo;est accepter que la situation est ce qu&rsquo;elle est, et donc accepter de commencer \u00e0 la changer<\/strong>. Car on ne peut changer que ce dont on est conscient ! Si je refuse la situation je sous entend que la situation n&rsquo;est pas ce qu&rsquo;elle est mais qu&rsquo;elle est dans le fond des choses diff\u00e9rente&#8230; Donc&#8230; Pas besoin de changer !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pour changer il faut savoir capituler&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alors l&rsquo;ann\u00e9e va finir ? Oui, je capitule bient\u00f4t \u00e0 chaque anniversaire&#8230;. 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